For me, things are getting worse when they finally moved in with us.
We (or I may say, my husband) ask
them to stay with us; to help us looking after our baby boy Noel when we both
have to go to work, it is something I don’t really agreed with, but seems it was
the only option left.
So, they moved in.
Then I started to feel like I don’t
live in my own house anymore, the place of my own.
Sometimes discussing it with my
husband is not giving me any solution, I realize it is difficult for him to be
fair with me and his parent at the same time.
I start to share this with few of
my close friends and my parents..
“pray for them!”.. that’s what
they said.
Honestly I’m not a so-religious person,
I do often missed lots of my pray time at night, but if
only I can make it, I always mention them in my pray.
Slowly but sure it comes to my sense,
I realize that they actually have help me in many ways, especially in helping
us taking care of noel when we both away, and I realize.. even me and husband,
we didn’t always crazy in love for each other, there were times when we both disagree
of something or me getting upset at him over something, that’s just how human
relationship goes.
We might feel disagree over few
things, they might hate me over my bad habits (lazy, not a morning person and so
on, and so on hehehe), but I believe things are getting better for us. it is not a perfect
relationship, but we all try to make it even better each and every day.
Happy birthday mother in law..
I’m wishing you a good health, and a happy long life, I hope I could be the daughter you have never had a change to have.
Noel dan Opung (My Mother-In Law)
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